Thank you is a simple two words phrase that is frequently taken
for granted nonetheless, its use or absence of use may stimulate both positive
and negative reactions.
Observing the daily activities of life around us, one could not help but notice that a lot of people had discarded the practice of saying these words as a show of appreciation whenever a favor had been received, extended or granted to them no matter how trivial it may seem.
In a ‘filled to capacity’ public utility vehicles I often witness incidents where someone offers
a seat to somebody who is less physically fit or assist a fellow passenger particularly
those with baggage in boarding or alighting the vehicle but recipient did not spare even a second to
acknowledge the courtesy extended. In
our country where community stores flourish, it is common for anybody to walk
in and request for a bigger bill to be changed to smaller denominations, ask
for a cigarette to be lighted, seek for directions or information and, someone
asking for material help or begging for something and just walk away after
their purpose was achieved. These cases and many other acts of kindness may
seem insignificant but as someone who had been extended a favor nothing will
be lost by acknowledging the act with just a simple thank you. Although this is not a practice of the
majority but it is somewhat disappointing to witness a lack of appreciation for
whatever concern or aid someone has made over somebody.
Thank you may seem inconsequential to some but if we just
have to analyze its effect we will realize its value and impact to both
parties.
Neglecting to say
a simple “thank you” may:
- Deter further favor from the persons who have realized the receiver’s
character.
- Change people’s outlook towards extending
assistance as display of ungratefulness is an effective tool to discourage not
only the benefactor but also the witnesses in upholding a “good Samaritan” practice.
- Result to loss of respect for someone who is
consistent in doing this.
Saying a simple thank you for ordinary gestures and favors
received would:
- Uplift the spirit of the donor as knowing that
someone appreciates what you have done also feels gratifying.
- Inspire donor or volunteer to do or share more
of what he could spare.
- Promote admiration, trust and respect towards
the person who knows how to appreciate.
Generosity, be it material, physical of even emotional in
form is not an obligation but a voluntary act from the person who extends
it. If the act is sincere in nature sans
any ulterior motive, the donor does not expect a repayment or any benefit from
doing it. But it does not mean however
that this would be sufficient rationale for showing ingratitude to someone who
had intended something good for your welfare no matter how petty is the amount
involve or the effort made. A sincere
thank you will only cost you few seconds to utter and this would more than
compensate for the affection that had been extended and will likewise develop a
positive attitude both to the giver and the receiver if constantly put into
practice.
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