The Power and Effect of Thank You

Thank you is a simple two words phrase that is frequently taken for granted nonetheless, its use or absence of use may stimulate both positive and negative reactions.

Observing the daily activities of life around us, one could not help but notice that a lot of people had discarded the practice of saying these words as a show of appreciation whenever a favor had been received, extended or granted to them no matter how trivial it may seem. 

In a ‘filled to capacity’ public utility vehicles  I often witness incidents where someone offers a seat to somebody who is less physically fit or assist a fellow passenger particularly those with baggage in boarding or alighting the vehicle  but recipient did not spare even a second to acknowledge the courtesy extended.  In our country where community stores flourish, it is common for anybody to walk in and request for a bigger bill to be changed to smaller denominations, ask for a cigarette to be lighted, seek for directions or information and, someone asking for material help or begging for something and just walk away after their purpose was achieved.   These cases and many other acts of kindness may seem insignificant but as someone who had been extended a favor  nothing will be lost by acknowledging the act with just a simple thank you.   Although this is not a practice of the majority but it is somewhat disappointing to witness a lack of appreciation for whatever concern or aid someone has made over somebody.

Thank you may seem inconsequential to some but if we just have to analyze its effect we will realize its value and impact to both parties.

 Neglecting to say a simple “thank you” may:

-      Deter further favor  from the persons who have realized the receiver’s character. 

-      Change people’s outlook towards extending assistance as display of ungratefulness is an effective tool to discourage not only the benefactor but also the witnesses in upholding a “good Samaritan” practice.

-      Result to loss of respect for someone who is consistent in doing this.

Saying a simple thank you for ordinary gestures and favors received would:

-      Uplift the spirit of the donor as knowing that someone appreciates what you have done also feels gratifying.

-      Inspire donor or volunteer to do or share more of what he could spare.

-      Promote admiration, trust and respect towards the person who knows how to appreciate.

Generosity, be it material, physical of even emotional in form is not an obligation but a voluntary act from the person who extends it.  If the act is sincere in nature sans any ulterior motive, the donor does not expect a repayment or any benefit from doing it.   But it does not mean however that this would be sufficient rationale for showing ingratitude to someone who had intended something good for your welfare no matter how petty is the amount involve or the effort made.  A sincere thank you will only cost you few seconds to utter and this would more than compensate for the affection that had been extended and will likewise develop a positive attitude both to the giver and the receiver if constantly put into practice.